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Is lễ tơ hồng mandatory in a wedding?
No, it is not mandatory. Bùi Xuân Mỹ (2001) records that only some families still follow this custom, while most people skip it. Song Mai and Quỳnh Trang (2006) also record that it is not widespread and appears only in a few localities.
From the article “The lễ tơ hồng and lễ hợp cẩn in traditional weddings: What is done, when, and by whom?”
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Emperor of the Early Lê dynasty, issuer of the Hồng Đức legal code and expander of the territory
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Lê Công Vinh
Former captain and all-time leading scorer of the Vietnam national football team
Lê Quý Đôn
A great scholar of feudal Vietnam, author of many research works on history, geography, literature and philosophy
Đặng Lê Nguyên Vũ
Chairman and General Director of Trung Nguyên Group
Tô Hoài
Author of Dế Mèn phiêu lưu ký, writer, journalist with a career spanning more than 60 years
Tố Hữu
A representative poet of Vietnamese revolutionary poetry, author of the poetry collections Từ ấy, Việt Bắc, Gió lộng, Ra trận, Máu và hoa
Lý Thái Tổ
Founding king of the Lý dynasty, the person who decided to move the capital from Hoa Lư to Thăng Long in 1010
Hồng Vân
People's Artist, stage and television actress, theatre director, owner of Phu Nhuan Drama Stage
Nguyên Hồng
Writer of the urban poor, author of Bỉ vỏ, Những ngày thơ ấu and Cửa biển
Hồng Nhung
Known as one of the divas of Vietnamese light music, closely associated with the songs of Trịnh Công Sơn, Dương Thụ, Trần Tiến, Phú Quang, Quốc Trung, Thanh Tùng.
